• humanamerican@lemmy.zip
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    15 hours ago

    Certainly the 90s were more stable and prosperous for more people than today, but to say those were the good old days means you would have to ignore:

    • Extreme urban decay
    • Unchecked police violence against minorities
    • Vile homophobia in the mainstream and no recognition at all of trans people
    • The rise of commodified suburban housing, stores, and restaurants
    • Our government’s Imperial ambition becoming completely unchecked in the wake of the fall of the Soviet Union

    There were never good old days.

    EDIT: also, isn’t that when school shootings really took off?

    • abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
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      14 hours ago

      America’s decline really started with Richard Nixon. I’m not an expert though.

      In the Netherlands, the 90’s were pretty good. I’m sure there were downsides,but there always are.

      The economy was good. We had a firm social safety net, maybe even too firm. That is now only a shell of its former self.

      The general acceptance of the gay community was on the uprise. The media was becoming gay positive, because of some key public figures. Trans not so much, only in the form of “drag queens” and such.

      Some things that are bad today, were bad than. Environmental issues, animal rights, gender equality, institutionalized racism.

      Most things are getting better now, but the economy is shit. That is fully to blame on capitalism. There are voices in power for change, but not enough.

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        9 hours ago

        A long time ago, I heard someone say that a Swedish drunk laying in a gutter knows more about American politics than the average American college graduate - it is true.

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      7 hours ago

      I’m obviously not saying the past was perfect, I’m saying we remember a world where a lot of families got on pretty well with 1 parent working paying for a home, cars, vacation, hobbies, etc.

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        7 hours ago

        I also took a pretty US centric view of your comment. If you’re from a country in which the 90s were indeed The Good Times, just ignore me.

        In the US, there were probably more people living stable middle class lives than there are today but there was still a very large and mostly ignored underclass, and there always has been.

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      14 hours ago

      The extreme urban decay of the 90s is to the extreme urban decay of the 20s just as Office Spaces hell of office cubes and meaningless work is to the deeper, darker hell of gig work and poverty.

      Shit was shit, its just that shit wasn’t as shit as it is now.

      I brought up how Office Space is supposed to be about a hellish environment… I’ve never had a cubical to myself, or a computer I can leave at work at 5pm. Its 2026 and I find myself wishing for the hell that Peter finds himself in, as its far, far more comfortable than the hell we have now.

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        10 hours ago

        I hated that movie the first time I watched it. Found it terrifying.

        The work and environment wasn’t the scary part, but how much people were willing to do something they felt hatred towards without protest.

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          58 minutes ago

          I would drag my balls over broken glass at the moment for a secure job where I did something mundane. Ideally one that doesn’t actively worsen the world. I’ve already done too much of that.

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      11 hours ago

      Most of us were like “holy shit, Nintendo 64. Whoa, PlayStation. Dude, you got a Dell! It’s got a SoundBlaster! Check out this new Internet thing! It’s got the World Wide Web! I’m gonna gel my hair and skateboard listening to Korn on my Discman with antiskip while eating 3d Doritos”

      And if you asked us about world events we would have been like “gulf war was lame”

      We were too young to really have known about how bad shit was getting, and the internet was just taking off and info did not travel like it does today. Video on a computer was an novelty (lots of windows loyalists called Apple’s QuickTime a gimmick and that it’d never last; until they got a video player themselves) and it took hours to download a few MB. There was no YouTube or TikTok, no live streams, barely any “feeds”, nothing was pushed to you, no WiFi even. Going on the computer was a purposeful activity you spent a slice of your day doing, like reading a book or gaming.

      We did not have the window to the world we have now. We all like to pretend that it’s getting worse; and it IS, but also we’re just now waking up to the lie we were told our whole lives and just how deep that lie goes.