• wurstgulasch3000@feddit.org
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    4 hours ago

    Things that are endearing when you know someone might be offputting when you don’t know then. Faking it when you are with someone is definitely not the way but showing some restraint with some of the more unique character traits when you get to know someone can be helpful at times.

    • Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works
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      3 hours ago

      Definitely true and fair, though I’d say that would more likely apply to some… Maybe actually negative character traits which maybe should be adjusted.

      I think there’s a hard line to find between “being yourself” and “this is something I should actually change to be a better person”