• agingelderly@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    This seems like it’s coming from an attractive person who doesn’t understand how easy being attractive makes dating

    • qarbone@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Nah, that could easily have a landed as a joke instead of a brain fart. And being funny is about 80-90% as good as being physically attractive.

      • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        I would rather have someone that’s conventionally unattractive and funny than the hottest person in the world with the personality of a wet sponge

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            46 minutes ago

            Not even necessarily. Hot enough is hot enough, you don’t stay in a relationship because someone is hot (unless you’re shallow), you stay in because the person inside the body is someone you want to be with. Also one part of maturity is realizing that sex is better with someone who looks fine but is fun to be with than someone who looks great but isn’t

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      2 days ago

      Except, you know, attractiveness is subjective, and heavily influenced by your personality

      Don’t sell yourself short