• endless_nameless@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    I’ll never hold the door unless it’s a public building, they’re close enough that I wouldn’t need to hold it for long, and they aren’t a woman within 10 years of my age. My anxiety can’t risk me being seen as a creep so I don’t want someone to think I’m holding the door for them cause I’m attracted to them or anything like that.

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        2 hours ago

        I mean, there’s no inconvenience at all in holding the door for someone. I just don’t wanna do it if it’s gonna lead to social anxiety for me.