

Going Debian is fully valid too! And more generally, whatever distro works for you is the best. There’s a good reason there are so many.
Damn, 5 kids…you’re a hero lol
Fedora sure is mature as well, but Bazzite in particular is immutable, which adds a level of complexity you may not be ready for. Debian can be used as a gaming distro, at least for as long as you’re not using the latest and greatest hardware.
Constant updates are pretty much a feature of all distros close to the bleeding edge. That’s what makes them bleeding edge to begin with. With Debian, you’ll be forgiven to forget updates even exist.
I mean, you lose nothing for trying. Windows will still be on your machine if you dual boot or use live image.
Some use cases may force the user to stay with Windows. Most won’t.