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A conservative think tank tied to the architects of Project 2025 is rolling out a sweeping set of policy proposals aimed at reshaping American families and promoting marriage and childbearing between heterosexual couples, according to a report obtained by The Washington Post.
A report from the Heritage Foundation, titled “Saving America by Saving the Family,” urges President Donald Trump and lawmakers “to save and restore the American family” through massive tax credits for families with more children while capping alimony payments, enacting strict work requirements on social benefit programs, discouraging online dating, creating marriage “bootcamp” classes and more.
The report suggests public-private partnerships to honor and provide monetary awards for every decade a couple remains married. It calls for a 16-year-old age limit on social media and certain AI chatbots, and further age restrictions on access to pornography, and it argues that “climate change alarmism” demoralizes young people and dissuades them from having children.
Heritage’s full plan, which builds on an executive summary obtained by The Post in September, represents a sharp pivot for the organization away from its tradition of promoting small government and free-market conservatism toward an ideology that embraces government intervention in affairs as private as procreation.
“We surveyed domestic experts, digested the literature, and travelled to multiple countries to learn everything we could about what is holding the industrialized world back,” Roger Severino, Heritage’s vice president of economic and domestic policy and one of the report’s lead authors, wrote in response to written questions from The Post. “And it always came back to having healthy families, which depends on stable, fruitful marriage.”
In its paper, though, Heritage casts the declining birth rate as a larger problem for the country that points to a more existential loss of national character, what the group calls “a profound cultural malaise in which a growing share of adults feel that they should not or cannot, and therefore do not, form families.”
“This is not just a harbinger of budget crunches for government entitlements,” the report states. “It is a mark of a culture that has lost hope for the future.”
Some of the paper’s conclusions drew criticisms from across the ideological spectrum.
“We have this new program that has misdiagnosed the causes of declining marriage rates and fertility rates in the United States and then proposes massive new spending and an expansion of middle- and upper-middle-class entitlements to rectify the problem,” said Griffith, who was a research fellow at the Heritage Foundation from 2018 to 2024.
Severino said the paper was “consistent with Heritage’s long standing principles” with recommendations to reduce the size and scope of government and that the “innovative solutions” in the report would “take the government off the sidelines” and “recognize the unique benefits that working families are providing to our nation.”
Numerous ideas in the report appear to clash with constitutional protections around free speech or Supreme Court precedents on a right to privacy. Others test boundaries between federal and state power.
Many of the recommendations align with the growing “pronatalist” movement among conservatives concerned with falling U.S. birth rates.
Supporters say they want to create more family-friendly policies broadly and produce more children to avert societal collapse. But critics say the movement reflects an overreach that seeks to restrict reproductive freedom and the autonomy of women, reinforcing traditional gender roles and dismissing the economic challenges and social realities associated with childbearing.
“The federal government generally doesn’t control family law, and so to the extent the idea is we’re going to use the federal government to ‘restore the American family’? That’s a very bold claim,” said Joanna Grossman, a law professor at Southern Methodist University’s Dedman School of Law.
Heritage has been wrapped in controversy for months after the organization’s president, Kevin Roberts, defended former Fox News host Tucker Carlson’s interview with Nick Fuentes, a white supremacist who routinely espouses antisemitic views.
Some of the proposals in the family report are part of the upheaval that’s shaken Heritage, an august institution with offices on both sides of the U.S. Capitol. Policy experts clashed over ideas that some staffers felt eschewed traditional conservatism or ventured so far into new territory that they made others uncomfortable, according to three people familiar with the paper. The people spoke on the condition of anonymity out of fear of retaliation.
Heritage executives have cautioned employees against communicating with journalists and have said that leakers will be disciplined, according to recordings of internal meetings obtained by The Post.
The document calls for a new tax break to incentivize larger families, pitching a credit worth more than $4,000 for married joint filers with children and widowed parents as long as they meet work requirements. The credit would increase by 25 percent for a “large family bonus” for parents with at least three children. The credit would grow by another $2,000 for each eligible child younger than 5 years old to encourage a parent to stay home and to provide child care.
The Department of Health and Human Services could offer couples “marriage bootcamp” sessions that include training on parenting skills and conflict management.
“In sum, government policies should encourage and protect the formation of families, not mere fertility,” the paper states. “The country should not seek a mere boost in the number of children born or in the monetary support that parents receive. Yes, the country needs more children. But it matters how and to whom children are born. Society depends on men and women who want to form families, that is, who freely want to marry, and then freely bear and nurture children.”
A previous draft obtained by The Post, dated in October, also included an appendix of ideas that Heritage did not endorse but said were offered “in the spirit of furthering debate and innovative thinking on family policy.”
The appendix was not included in the final version of the paper. Severino said “it should surprise no one” that some of the items were dropped as Heritage authors “hash[ed] out ideas,” and that “not everything makes the final cut.”
Some of the excluded ideas included studying “child-proxy voting,” where parents could cast an extra half-vote on behalf of each of their children; dramatically increasing the cost of divorce proceedings while making marriage licenses free; legally punishing adultery and “homewrecker[s]”; banning pornography; and making Election Day a half-day or holiday to promote family-based civic activity. Many of the recommendations were directed at both federal and local officials.
“What they’re really getting at,” Grossman said, “is they want to change the way people think and behave.”


$2000 tax credit per child to encourage a parent to stay at home…am crazy or do they really not know how expensive it is to live?
They really have no clue. I think it’s at least partially a consequence of the bizarre American tradition where wealthy people are given additional benefits for no reason other than the hope they’ll be more likely to spend more money over the long run. Like when people are offered a discount, reimbursement, or fees waived entirely for traveling or attending an event just because they also own a business or nonprofit.
I get that nobody wants to spend money if they don’t have to, but I get that because most people have a finite amount of money available and actually have to make ends meet each month. So it’s a bit irritating when you have all these weird random day to day transactions where financial aid seems to be offered only to the people who need it the least.
I can’t really blame people for taking it when it’s offered, but it definitely seems to add to this inability to comprehend the reality of finances for most people. Not to mention the very smug idea that when they take advantage of these discounts, they view it as no different than plebs clipping coupons. That then leads to this belief that being so money savvy is what makes them deserving of the luxuries they allow themselves vs. the idea that if you see a poor person eating anything other than gruel and wearing an off brand potato sack, that single luxury you witnessed them indulging in, is not something they worked to deserve. It’s just frivolous spending and an example of the reason poor people always stay poor.
Once they’re already at that level of removed from the reality of just living day to day for most people, it’s probably not that hard to just kind of brush aside the fact that somebody making the same amount of money you were making 30-50 years ago, is going to have much higher cost of living.
When somebody points out $2k/child you just shuffle back step to, well if one parent is staying home, they should be taking all that extra free time to be clipping more coupons. And if that’s not enough, maybe they can grow their own vegetables in a garden. If that’s not enough, maybe take up pickling and canning as a fun family hobby to help you all survive the winter.
And if that’s not enough maybe the kids can find jobs and labor after school. It might be good for them, and teach them the value of a dollar. If that’s not enough maybe they can labor during the day too. Do they really even need to go to school at all, when we’re banking on them joining the army the day they turn 18? They owe it to us for the $36,000 we invested in each of them.